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Elaine de Kooning /   Elaine Marie Fried

United States 1918 - 1989

Abstract Expressionism, Figurative Expressionism

Elaine de Kooning
Elaine Marie Fried
United States
March 28, 2017
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A major figure in both the Abstract Expressionist and American Figurative Expressionist movements of the 1940s and 1950s, Elaine de Kooning was a prominent American painter who can easily be classified as one of the most important female artists of the 20th century[1]. She was a prolific and versatile painter, writer and teacher whose paintings featured loose and thick brushstrokes made in bold hues and executed in an energetic, improvisational style. Although Elaine de Kooning was closely associated with the New York School and the famed Abstract Expressionism current, she worked hard at developing a singular, personal style and painted in a wide array of modes ranging from realism to abstraction. Her original name was Elaine Marie Fried but she changed it after she married the legendary Willem de Kooning and took on his own family name[2].

Elaine de Kooning - Portrait of the Burghers of Amsterdam Avenue in an art gallery, 1963
Elaine de Kooning – The Burghers of Amsterdam Avenue, 1963 – Image via hyperallergic.com

Before Elaine Marie Fried Was Elaine de Kooning

Although she often claimed that she was born in 1920, Elaine Marie Fried was actually born in the year of 1918, in the Flatbush neighborhood of New York City. The eldest of four children, her parents were Mary Ellen O’Brien, an Irish Catholic, and Charles Frank Fried, a Protestant of Jewish descent. Elaine’s mother started taking her eldest child to museums at the age of five, teaching her to draw what she saw along the way. Mary Ellen O’Brien did have some failings as a mother, but these early events shaped her daughter’s future career. By the time she was in grade school, Elaine began drawing and selling portraits of children from her grade. After graduating from high school, Elaine Marie Fried briefly attended Hunter College in New York City where she befriended a group of abstract and Social Realist painters. In 1938, her teacher introduced her to Willem de Kooning at a Manhattan breakfast cafeteria – she was 20 and he was 34 years of age at the time. After that, he began to instruct her in drawing and painting, but their relationship was marked by his harsh criticism of her work – Willem even destroyed many of her drawings while they were dating. The two married in 1943.

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Elaine de Kooning – Southwest Landscape – Image via peytonwright.com

The Search for an Artistic Form

After meeting Willem, Elaine suddenly found herself within the circle of the most prominent national artists in New York, spending time with the likes of Jackson Pollock, Jimmy Rosati, Giorgio Spavento, Milton Resnick, Pat Passlof, Earl Kerkam, Ludwig Sander, Angelo Ippolito, Franz Kline, Clyfford Still and Hans Hofmann. She often exhibited her own work alongside her husband’s, very aware that it was usually overshadowed by Willem’s fame. Although women were often marginalized in the Abstract Expressionist movement, Elaine de Kooning never attempted to make some distance between herself and these painters. However, she did chose to sign her artworks with her initials rather than her full name to avoid labeling her art as feminine. She made both abstract and figurative paintings and drawings of still life, cityscapes and portraits – one of her most notable portraits was the one of the American president John Kennedy[3], probably the most famous abstract portrait of a Kennedy ever made. Elaine de Kooning fused abstraction with mythology, primitive imagery and realism, treating her art as an event first and only secondarily as an image, more as a verb and less as a noun.[4] She began working at the magazine Artnews in 1948 and wrote articles about major figures in the art world. After writing about one hundred articles on various topics, she became an art critic and was the first notable American artist in the 1950s to take on this role.

Elaine de Kooning treated her painterly compositions more as tools of storytelling and conversations than a form of pure action art

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Elaine de Kooning – Robert de Niro Sr, 1973 – Image via npr.org

Events of Her Later Life

The marriage between Elaine and Willem was full of affairs as both of them desired to have an open relationship. Additionally, both of them struggled with alcoholism and that eventually led to their separation in 1957. Elaine remained in New York, struggling with poverty, and Willem moved to Long Island and dealt with depression. They both continued painting[5]. She took on a series of short-term teaching job to support herself – she even spent time at Black Mountain College where she designed a stage set for Merce Cunningham and John Cage. Although separated for nearly twenty years, Elaine and Willem never divorced and ultimately reunited in 1976 when the artist wanted to take care of her sick husband. Elaine de Kooning died on the 1st of February in 1989, in Southampton, New York, a year after having a lung removed due to cancer. Sadly, she did not receive real recognition for her own achievement until a few years before she died.

Following many recent discoveries and an increasing interest in her work, Elaine de Kooning can now easily be described as one of the most versatile artists of the Abstract Expressionist movement

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Elaine de Kooning – Bullfight, 1959 – Image via pinterest.com

The Pivotal Role of Elaine de Kooning ( 1918–1989 )

Although it often seems as if Elaine Marie Fried is primarily known for her turbulent marriage with one of the greatest 20th-century modern painters, it’s hard to overlook all of her contributions to the development of contemporary art. Her borderline stubborn rejection of dedicating herself to any one and only style combined with the way she treated the painterly pieces as events easily secure Elaine de Kooning’s place within any list of the great modern female artists. Ultimately, Elaine’s artistic range, vast knowledge of media and sheer influence on fellow artists was undeniable and it made it pretty hard for her career to stay completely overshadowed by that of Willem de Kooning. Nowadays, she is widely accepted as a separate artist who not only worked on her own style independent from her husband’s work but also massively contributed to the development of Willem’s concepts.


  1. Hall, L., Women of Abstract Expressionism, Yale University Press, 2016
  2. Kershaw, A., Elaine and Bill: Portrait of a Marriage : The Lives of Willem and Elaine de Kooning, Harpercollins; 1st edition, 1993
  3. Fortune, B. B., Gibson, A., Cupic, S., Elaine de Kooning: Portraits, Prestel, 2015
  4. Slivka, R., de Kooning, E., The Spirit of Abstract Expressionism: Selected Writings of Elaine de Kooning and Rose Slivka, George Braziller; First Edition (US) First Printing edition, 1994
  5. De Kooning, E., Bledsoe, J. K., Portrait of Elaine de Kooning: Essays by Lawrence Campbell, Helen a Harrison, Rose Slivka, Univ of Georgia Georgia Museum; 1st edition, 1992

Featured image: Elaine de Kooning – Photo of the artist, 1960 – Image via Rudolph Burckhardt
All images used for illustrative purposes only.

YearExhibition TitleGallery/MuseumSolo/Group
2016Women Of Abstract ExpressionismDenver Art Museum, Denver, CO Group
2016Leap Before You Look: Black Mountain College 1933-1957Hammer Museum, Los Angeles, CA Group
2016De Kooning in CompanyWeatherspoon Art Museum, Greensboro, NC Group
2016The Other: Nurturing A New Ecology In PrintmakingMuseum of Contemporary Art Jacksonville (MOCA), Jacksonville, FL Group
2015You Go Girl! Celebrating Women ArtistsHeckscher Museum of Art, Huntington, NY Group
2015Tamarind Institute and the Rebirth of LithographyKrannert Art Museum, Champaign, IL Group
2015Being and Becoming: First and Second Generation Abstract Expressionist CompositionsPeyton Wright Gallery, Santa Fe, NM Group
2014AbstractionLevis Fine Art, Ossining, NY Group
2013Recent Acquisitions. Prints, Drawings, and PhotographsMuseum of Fine Arts St. Petersburg, St. Petersburg, FL Group
2013Recent AcquisitionsThe Museum of Fine Arts, St. Petersburg, FL Group
2013Post War American ArtLevis Fine Art, Ossining, NY Group
2013Textures: the Written Word in Contemporary ArtACA Galleries, New York City, NY Group
2013Summer SelectionsHollis Taggart Galleries, New York City, NY Group
2013Selected WorksFischbach Gallery, New York City, NY Group
2013New York Abstract ExpressionistsLevis Fine Art, Ossining, NY Group
2012Elaine de Kooning: Identity RevealedLevis Fine Art, Ossining, NY Solo
2012Elaine de Kooning: Full CircleLevis Fine Art, Ossining, NY Solo
2011Companion Pieces: Artist Circles from the Permanent CollectionKemper Museum of Contemporary Art, Kansas City, MO Group
2011Black Mountain College and Its LegacyLoretta Howard Gallery, New York City, NY Group
2010Women ArtistsReading Public Museum, Reading, PA Group
2010Open Conservation StudioTufts University Art Gallery, Medford, MA Group
2010Honor: Marine PortraitsOceanside Museum of Art (OMA), Oceanside, CA Group
2010Close Observation: Drawings, Sketches and Mixed-Media Works from the Gallery CollectionGeorge Krevsky Gallery, San Francisco, CA Group
2009New York CoolBowdoin College Museum of Art, Brunswick, ME Group
2008East End:Artists and their environmentLevis Fine Art, Ossining, NY Group
2008East End:Artists and their environmentLevis Fine Art, Ossining, NY Group
2008New York Cool: Paintings and Sculptures from the NYU Art CollectionGrey Art Gallery, NYU, New York City, NY Group
2007A Culture in the MakingHackett Freedman Gallery, San Francisco, CA Group
2006Aspects of HumanityCenter for Contemporary Art Sacramento, Sacramento, CA Group
2006Black Mountain CollegeBridgette Mayer Gallery, Philadelphia, PA Group
2006Black Mountain College: Its Time and PlaceAsheville Art Museum, Asheville, NC Group
2006Starting at Zero: Black Mountain College 1933-57Kettle's Yard, Cambridge, Cambridgeshire Group
2004JFK and ArtNorton Museum of Art, West Palm Beach, FL Group
2004Art and Social Change, 1920s–1950sMary & Leigh Block Museum of Art, Evanston, IL Group
2003Elaine de KooningHackett Freedman Gallery, San Francisco, CA Solo
2003MasterworksWashburn Gallery, New York City, NY Group
2003Crack of the Bat: The Art of BaseballGeorge Krevsky Gallery, San Francisco, CA Group
2002Black Mountain College: Una aventura americanaMuseo Nacional Centro de Arte Reina Sofía, Madrid Group
2001Abstrakter Expressionismus in AmerikaMuseum Pfalzgalerie Kaiserslautern, Kaiserslautern Group
2000Portraits of LeoLeo Castelli Gallery, New York City, NY Group
2000Expresionismo AbstractoFundación Juan March, Madrid Group
1999In Memory Of My Feelings: Frank O'hara And American ArtMOCA Grand Avenue, Los Angeles, CA Group
1996Elaine de Kooning: Paintings, 1955-65Washburn Gallery, New York City, NY Solo
1994Elaine de Kooning: Artists and WritersWashburn Gallery, New York City, NY Solo
1994Elaine De Kooning: Baccus And CavesFischbach Gallery, New York City, NY Solo
1994Major Paintings And Works On PaperWashburn Gallery, New York City, NY Group
1993Elaine de KooningFlorida International University, Miami, FL Solo
1992Elaine de Kooning: Drawings from 1947Washburn Gallery, New York City, NY Solo
1991Elaine de Kooning: Black Mountain Paintings from 1948Washburn Gallery, New York City, NY Solo
1988Elaine De KooningFischbach Gallery, New York City, NY Solo
1988Diamonds Are Forever. Artists and Writers on BaseballCincinnati Contemporary Arts Center, Cincinnati, OH Group
1987For 25 Years: Crown Point PressMuseum of Modern Art (MoMA), New York City, NY Group
1986Elaine De KooningGruenebaum Gallery, New York City, NY Solo
1983Elaine de Kooning and the Bacchus MotifArts Club of Chicago, Chicago, IL Solo
1983Born In BrooklynBRIC Rotunda Gallery, New York City, NY Group
1982Elaine deKooning: the Bacchus seriesGruenebaum Gallery, New York City, NY Solo
1979Book MakersThe Center for Book Arts , New York City, NY Group
1978Women Artists Paint Women ArtistsVirginia Miller Galleries, Coral Gables (Miami), FL Group
1975Portrait Painting 1970-1975Allan Frumkin Gallery, New York City, NY Group
1973Portraits by Elaine de KooningMontclair Art Museum, Montclair, NJ Solo
1967In Memory of My FeelingsMuseum of Modern Art, New York City, NY Group
1964American Paintings and Sculpture 67th AnnualThe Art Institute of Chicago, Chicago, IL Group
1962Recent Painting U.S.A.: The FigureMuseum of Modern Art (MoMA), New York City, NY Group
1961Recent AcquisitionsMuseum of Modern Art (MoMA), New York City, NY Group
19519th Street Art Exhibition9th Street Art Exhibition, New York City, NY Group